Rejection

[Sneaky]

I've rejected two girls...one...I was superficial...and rejected her because of her weight. I was on some twisted stupid shit...and she was a nice girl...a little nuts but overall a nice girl and she told me she liked me...and I told her I wasn't interested...and she asked me 'why'...and I couldn't come up with a good answer...so basically she knew it was because she was fat. In retrospect...I was a douchebag for that shit. I mean I know it's good to have standards...but I could've handled it better.

The second girl...was actually HOT...I mean uber-sexy...a lot of dudes at school wanted to date her...or just have sex with her. Whichever's the case...but she was full of DRAMA. Just...complete DRAMA with other chicks...drama with dudes...etc. Me, my other friend...and her...always hung out together. I didn't really see her as anything more than a friend...who was smoking hot. I never liked her as girlfriend material because I was more about 'chillin and having fun' at the time...so I didn't want any of those types of issues. So...my buddy goes up to me one day while we're at her house listening to the new System of a Down CD...and she leaves the room for a bit because her mom had come home...and he goes "Dude...Kayla likes you." and I'm like "Really?"...and he's like "Yeah, don't tell her I told you...but she told me a couple days ago that she thinks you're a really nice guy...and she wants to ask you out." and I'm like "Fuck, are you serious? Man...I...shit." and before I could discuss it any further...she came in and was like "What are you guys talking about?" and we're like "Nothing...this song's awesome" blah blah blah...2 days later we're sitting in her tool-shed outside smoking weed...and my buddy's like..."Dude I think Kayla's gonna ask you out...so...I'm gonna go." and he leaves...and it's just me and her...and she's like "Hey Carlos, is there anyone at school you like?" and I'm like "Ummm...not at the moment. I mean some girls are hot ofcourse but none I'd date." and she's like "Oh, because I was thinking...maybe me and you could go out sometime." and I was like "Ummmm...listen...I mean...you're a really nice girl Kayla...but I just don't want a relationship right now."

Remember I told you she was all drama? Well...instantly...her eyes just welded up with tears...and she starts sobbing...and I walk up to her and I hug her and I'm like "No no, don't cry...listen...you're a cool chick...but you're an awesome friend too...and I don't wanna ruin that...besides, you're not my type...I'm sorry...but I can't date you and lead you on when I don't see you as anything more than a friend. It would selfish of me to do that to you."

Anyways...long story short...she understood...we remained friends for another year but we started drifting apart...and blah blah blah...we don't talk now.

In retrospect...I think if she hadn't been so full of high school drama bullshit with half the school...I probably would have dated her...and MAYBE...we could've lasted quite a bit.

Cool story bro

[dospro]

I've rejected two girls...one...I was superficial...and rejected her because of her weight. I was on some twisted stupid shit...and she was a nice girl...a little nuts but overall a nice girl and she told me she liked me...and I told her I wasn't interested...and she asked me 'why'...and I couldn't come up with a good answer...so basically she knew it was because she was fat. In retrospect...I was a douchebag for that shit. I mean I know it's good to have standards...but I could've handled it better.

The second girl...was actually HOT...I mean uber-sexy...a lot of dudes at school wanted to date her...or just have sex with her. Whichever's the case...but she was full of DRAMA. Just...complete DRAMA with other chicks...drama with dudes...etc. Me, my other friend...and her...always hung out together. I didn't really see her as anything more than a friend...who was smoking hot. I never liked her as girlfriend material because I was more about 'chillin and having fun' at the time...so I didn't want any of those types of issues. So...my buddy goes up to me one day while we're at her house listening to the new System of a Down CD...and she leaves the room for a bit because her mom had come home...and he goes "Dude...Kayla likes you." and I'm like "Really?"...and he's like "Yeah, don't tell her I told you...but she told me a couple days ago that she thinks you're a really nice guy...and she wants to ask you out." and I'm like "Fuck, are you serious? Man...I...shit." and before I could discuss it any further...she came in and was like "What are you guys talking about?" and we're like "Nothing...this song's awesome" blah blah blah...2 days later we're sitting in her tool-shed outside smoking weed...and my buddy's like..."Dude I think Kayla's gonna ask you out...so...I'm gonna go." and he leaves...and it's just me and her...and she's like "Hey Carlos, is there anyone at school you like?" and I'm like "Ummm...not at the moment. I mean some girls are hot ofcourse but none I'd date." and she's like "Oh, because I was thinking...maybe me and you could go out sometime." and I was like "Ummmm...listen...I mean...you're a really nice girl Kayla...but I just don't want a relationship right now."

Remember I told you she was all drama? Well...instantly...her eyes just welded up with tears...and she starts sobbing...and I walk up to her and I hug her and I'm like "No no, don't cry...listen...you're a cool chick...but you're an awesome friend too...and I don't wanna ruin that...besides, you're not my type...I'm sorry...but I can't date you and lead you on when I don't see you as anything more than a friend. It would selfish of me to do that to you."

Anyways...long story short...she understood...we remained friends for another year but we started drifting apart...and blah blah blah...we don't talk now.

In retrospect...I think if she hadn't been so full of high school drama bullshit with half the school...I probably would have dated her...and MAYBE...we could've lasted quite a bit.

smh dog you dropped a catch. Your not your dicks keeper. Never drop catches youll regret it later on in life

[Charlie Br0wn™]

I know I know...like I said...in retrospect...I should've gone for it...but the drama filled aspect turned me off. I didn't wanna be involved with all the bullshit happening with her and other people at school.

But...these days I'm more of a slut than I was back then. Remember...I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17...so both of those rejections happened before I had experienced pussy in any form. I wasn't addicted to it...therefore I had standards.

[dunzo]

I just finished telling this story not too long ago to a few people...

I was 19 and this dude tried talkin to me and i rejected him..i wasnt a bitch but i wasn't very nice about either...as i walk away, the man turns around and starts cussin'...i'll never forget this bc i laughed so hard....the man says, " BITCH I BET YOU DONT LOOK LIKE THAT WHEN YOU WAKE UP!" ...i was like dude, then why try me in the first place?? Some people just handle rejection in a bad bad way ..lol

I cant think of a time I got rejected bc i never approach anyone in public...back in my single days in high school, i pretty much got with whoever i had my eye on ...
and im not being full of myself when i say that either, its just true.

[dospro]

I know I know...like I said...in retrospect...I should've gone for it...but the drama filled aspect turned me off. I didn't wanna be involved with all the bullshit happening with her and other people at school.

But...these days I'm more of a slut than I was back then. Remember...I didn't lose my virginity until I was 17...so both of those rejections happened before I had experienced pussy in any form. I wasn't addicted to it...therefore I had standards.

Man you gotta make sure you get all that you can man because once you get married and start having kids thats going to be your vagina for life and you may end up regretting all the lost Vs. Last thing you want to do is regret all the past vajayjays and end up with this vagina

[miranda hobbes.]

Ah, with creepers and lames while wandering the city/on the subway/in a club/bar. I just try not to speak at all, politely look the opposite direction as if I don't notice you. It's more difficult when you have to reject someone you actually know/knows someone you know.

I've never really placed myself in a situation where I could get rejected. I'll normally keep my mouth shut about feeling a guy until I'm given a sign.

From most of the reads though, it seems like you males have to go through a lot haha.

[Cabbith]

It happens.

[Charlie Br0wn™]

Up The Shut Fuck^